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All of me hoped that we wouldn’t make it this far… but every morning I wake up, still pregnant and more uncomfortable than ever. So here is my 41 week update (filled with sarcasm) without a fancy photo because I did that for 40 weeks and that’s enough 😉

How far along: 41 weeks

How big is baby: BIG. Full grown. Human.

Gender: It’s a BOY

Movement: Yes. Paying close attention to his movements and he’s moving lots still.

Sleep: I’m barely sleeping. Anticipation is at an all time high and comfortable positions no longer exist.

Symptoms: Swelling. Exhaustion. Pain. Waddle.

Pelvic Pain: The pain is back in full force. This baby just needs to come out I think.

Labor signs: Not so much. I have lots of braxton hicks? But nothing real. Gonna be pregnant for.ev.er.

Maternity clothes: Yes…

Workouts: Ha. Hahahaha

We are trying to walk as much as possible but it hurts and it’s hard.

Nursery: No change.. It’s ready. We’re ready. Everything is ready except the baby.

Mike: He’s ready! Every morning we wake up and realize that the baby didn’t attempt to arrive and we both kinda deflate. We’re enjoying this time together though and it’s very happy and light hearted at our house (except when it’s not because HORMONES). It’s been a very sweet few weeks with him.

Missing anything: I can’t even begin to answer this question.

Best part of the week: Mike and I had lots of quality time this week which I LOVE.

Looking forward to most: Baby’s arrival! COME ON BABY!

Worries/Concerns: Obviously, we were hoping to have a baby before we had to talk induction with our doctor. The baby has other plans and that’s ok. I am still hopeful to put off induction for a few more days because a few more days won’t kill me as long as baby is healthy. Please pray for our appointment today – that it would go well and that much needed conversations will go smoothly.

Also, thanks to everyone who has been praying for us. We are so grateful for your thoughts and prayers as we wait for baby.

41 weeks! It’s a post-shower, mirror pic where I intentionally hide my face..

We enjoyed a fun date night to El Agave this week! We also kept up with our weekly Cracker Barrel tradition and we attempted to make our own Cracker Barrel pancakes on Sunday night. It was a success!

Alf has been taking lots of naps at my side. We’ve been taking walks often and it wears him out! As the baby’s arrival gets closer he gets more and more protective of me and he’s always very aware of where I’m at. He’s the sweetest and I’m so excited to see this puppy become a “big brother”.

That’s all for 41 weeks! Thanks for going through this whole pregnancy journey with us!

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How far along: 40 weeks!

How big is baby: About the size of a watermelon, and not those cute mini ones, the full size heavy ones.

Gender: It’s a BOY

Movement: His movements have slowed down a little bit maybe? But he’s still pretty active. Mike can almost always feel his little feet sticking out and he responds to Mike’s voice. So sweet. He appears to be pretty content on the inside though.

Sleep: I no longer sleep well… I cramp more during the night and that will sometimes keep me awake. I also am having some hip pain. If I stretch out my legs during the night my hips will lock up and I have to get up and stretch or walk around to make the pain go away. Not fun.

Symptoms: Exhaustion. Occasional swelling. Heartburn, still, but not as often. Hip pain. Feeling huge.

Pelvic Pain: The pain comes and goes as expected. Some days are manageable and others are more difficult. So happy to be nearing the end and holding onto hope that quickly after delivery my ligaments will stabalize.

Labor signs: Still just lots of braxton hicks and some cramping. I am pretty sure I will be a 41+ weeks first time mom and that’s ok. We’re being patient and trying hard to just trust my body.

Cravings/Aversions: Not craving too much. My appetite has decreased this week. Mike did surprise me with a cinnamon crunch bagel from Panera this morning though and that made me real happy.

Maternity clothes: Umm yes. I wear Mike’s shirts everyday that I don’t need to be presentable and some days that I do… Whoops! I packed some of my “looser” shirts in my hospital bag though and I’m so excited to be able to wear those again after the baby is born.

Workouts: No workouts due to pain. We’ve been trying to go on a walk everyday but I am slow moving. Alfie loves it though.

Nursery: The nursery is about as ready as it will be for the babe to arrive! I still want curtains and a few more decor items, but I am not motivated to work on those things just yet. Hoping to share photos later this week unless this little guy decides to arrive – which I wouldn’t hate.

Mike: Mike is so ready for this baby to come! He’s been talking to the baby more this last week and my new momma heart melts every time. He unfortunately got a nasty stomach bug last week – but that kept him home with me for a couple days and I loved it so much even though he was very miserable.

Missing anything: Umm… sleep, being able to roll over in bed, using my abs, not being in pain, walking, working out… The list goes on and on. But the end is actually in sight now… less than 10 days!

Best part of the week: We ordered our stroller this week! We also got a new TV in the living room so the old living room TV came into our bedroom – it has been awesome for all this waiting around. We kept up our weekly Cracker Barrel tradition and had lots of time just the two of us as Mike recovered from some sort of virus (or maybe food poisoning?).

Looking forward to most: Baby’s arrival!

Worries/Concerns: No worries or concerns right now! My doctor is giving me until early next week to go into labor on my own and then we’re gonna talk induction. I really don’t want to be induced – unless my or baby’s health is at risk. Please pray for us as we continue to prepare for baby and for labor and pray that this little man decides to come on his own without an assist from the doc. So excited!

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How far along: 39 weeks (WHAT?!)

How big is baby: About the size of a pumpkin!

Gender: It’s a BOY

Movement: Yes lots of movement. I can feel his head tucked into my pelvis now and can feel him turning side to side – pretty strange. I love feeling the frequent hiccups and even the jabs to the ribs. Every time he gets the hiccups now I wonder if it’s the last time I’ll feel them on the inside.. It’s tight quarters for everyone nowadays though so I would be happy to witness those hiccups on the outside ANYTIME.

Sleep: I no longer sleep well… I can be completely exhausted and lay awake for hours, tossing and turning, getting up to pee, rearranging pillows, overheating. I had 38 weeks of really good sleep (for pregnancy) though and 1-2 weeks of rough sleep before a newborn arrives and sleep doesn’t exist is fine by me.

Symptoms: Exhaustion. Occasional swelling but usually only when I’ve been on my feet for more than normal. I am nauseous in the mornings again and really have to watch how much food I eat. Heartburn gets bad at bedtime/when I lay down and I’m having lots of braxton hicks. These contractions are getting stronger as I get closer to my due date so my body is definitely trying to prepare.

Pelvic Pain: The pain comes and goes as expected. Some days are manageable and others are more difficult. I have noticed that if I stay up too late or get overly exhausted the pain is significantly worse the next day. I still see the chiropractor once a week for adjustments and they help so much. I am usually pretty sore the day of but then feel great for at least a couple days afterwards. My lower back is becoming more unstable as the baby drops, but that’s expected this far in the game. The pelvic pain is also increasing again with the added pressure of baby being low (I assume). BUT we’re almost to the end and it should get significantly better when this baby decides to arrive.

Labor signs: Still just lots of braxton hicks. They are getting stronger as we get closer to the due date but they still don’t hurt – just are pretty uncomfortable. If I’m laying down during one they usually take my breath away – not because of pain but because it does something to my lungs. I don’t like that at all. I’ve had a few painful contractions too but I think those were from dehydration.

Cravings/Aversions: Still loving (cold) fresh fruit and ice cold water but unfortunately both of these things make the heartburn worse. Still loving grilled cheese sandwiches/sandwiches in general. Craving carbs too.

Maternity clothes: Yep! Either maternity or Mike’s shirts. It’s usually Mike’s shirts and sweatpants though if I’m being honest. I’d rather be comfortable than cute.

Workouts: No workouts due to pain.

Nursery: I am hoping to take photos this afternoon of the “finished” nursery. I still want to add some sort of curtains to the window and will obviously make adjustments when the baby arrives. Mike and I both love how this space turned out and I love walking by the room and seeing everything all set up and ready. Now we just wait for baby!

Mike: His life is just BUSY. I feel like I’ve been saying that every week, but it’s our reality right now. We had a little time this weekend together for our weekly Cracker Barrel breakfast and some TV shopping. Time with just him is always so great and I find myself just craving it before the baby comes. His schedule doesn’t allow it, but we are definitely soaking up the moments we do have.

Missing anything: Umm… sleep, being able to roll over in bed, using my abs, not being in pain, walking, working out… The list goes on and on.

Best part of the week: Friday morning with Mike was so so great. We had breakfast at Cracker Barrel and then drove all around trying to find the best deal on a TV for our living room. It was so fun just being with him and constantly laughing with him.

Looking forward to most: Baby’s arrival.

Worries/Concerns: No worries or concerns right now! Please pray for us as we continue to prepare for baby and for labor.

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